Thinking

Evan on January 10th, 2012

A rule of thumb I have is that “everybody is sane”. I don’t mean this literally exactly. But I want to put it starkly like this to emphasise the importance of the point, which is that:   I Make Sense (to me) The point is that almost always a person’s way of behaving makes sense [...]

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Evan on October 13th, 2011

Roshani’s difficulty with living an authentic life is the effects of past trauma. She put it this way: It is still difficult for me to live life feeling accepted as a woman that has received in the childhood this TRAUMA …with all the consequences in my present life!!!LOVE! Roshani This post is the second part [...]

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Evan on October 19th, 2010

I’m very much a thinker – I value my ability to observe and take things apart very highly. But there is more to me too (even me). In moments of creativity I discover things and surprise myself. I think this means that there is more to me than my rational and intentional self. Sometimes we [...]

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In this part I want to write about how we think about things. The last part was about our perceptions (what we think about) and how to change them. This part is the difference we can make in how we think about things. The Value of Thinking About Our Experience In our western culture it [...]

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Our western culture emphasises linear rationality (such things as analysis, logic, sequence, prioritising and planning). So I’ll start our tour of the world of self-development here: it is a place that we are all familiar with – even if we don’t like it terribly much. The emphasis on linear rationality has lead to a reaction [...]

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